Infidel? I have been unfaithful to my partner, he knows now and wants to try to resolve this issue. For my part, I make the biggest mistake and would never cause such destruction or harm to anyone. I love my partner and deeply regret my mistake, but I'm not sure how and what I do to rebuild our relationship again? please help
Firstly, I congratulate you with remorse and wanting to make things right again with your partner.
The first thing, it looks like you'll have to do is give your partner as much time as possible to sort out his feelings. There is no trust, you can be assured of that. He can tell you he still hopes, but basically that was violated in the worst ways it can be. I do not mean to cause you more guilt. It's just the reality of your partner.
Many people become frustrated when they try and try to regain the trust of their partners and nothing happens. If you really love your partner and are willing to wait as long as it takes to regain confidence, then you have something to build. Without trust, there is nothing to build.
Everyone assumes that it is the responsibility of the partner who does not cheat cause the other partner to cheat. Yes, each partner has a role in everything that happens, however, the choice to cheat is yours and yours alone. there may be unresolved issues you have, which may affect your decision process, regardless of what your partner has done or not done. I strongly suggest you go first consultation, work on your own concerns, which we all, and only then you can work effectively on the issues between the two of you. In order not to cheat again, you should work on to understand why you did first ... and honestly when you get to the point, I think you will find that it had nothing to do with your partner. It was just the avenue in which you acted.
Finally, communicate with your partner what you think and feel. Communication is the key and allowing your partner know where you come from, and allowing your partner to share and vent their feelings, some healing for both of you can start.
Good luck to you and again, I congratulate you on being honest about it.
Sarasazzle, just to express your regret and hope for the best. That's all you can do at this point.
you should try to gain his trust. will be a long and difficult process. The key will be totally honest with him and let him know why it is that you cheated on him. it may hurt him, but he deserves the truth. luck.
but you've been forgiven, so put this behind you and move forward, why not go back to when you started dating, remember the press soon and ..
First to understand why you cheated and fix, then try to rebuild the relationship
Trust and communication! I think if you really love each other it will work. Be true to yourself and him, and over time both you can build your relationship to where you were. Do not give up!
Be yourself AND IF YOU stick too much effort YOU GET probally on her nerves, anyway should not you be talking to him and not American, an employment relationship WONT matter how hard you try LESS you communicate to EACH OTHER.
You can talk to your friends or a foreign chick hottie of him in front of your face.
In this way, it can harm you as good as you did her wrong and then you can call it even.
This is my prespricption. Take 2 and call me in the morning.
I think if you have been unfaithful once you do it again. Being unfaithful is not a problem, What a problem is discovered
you actually made the first step and say thats the hardest part is him now, the weather, it can get over it or rental.
Posted on July 18, 2010.