Tao Of Steve, The

One of my favorite "guy" movies is "The Tao of Steve, which shows how Dex, a fat guy with no aspirations, easily gets hot, beautiful women. How? Simply follow the 3 rules of Tao. They are following:

Eliminate your desires.

Do something excellent in her presence, which proves your degree sexual.
Retirement because, as Heidegger says, "we follow what withdraws from us."

Or, to put it more simply:

Be Desireless
Be excellent
Be gone

Dex talent was that he knew how to cook a dish of lobster really means: thus it has completed the second rule. He knew one thing, and he did it well. In the process, he took the first and third by the Tao do not be too eager to impress the girl and get her phone number, and just after impressing the girl with his talent, he would be gone. After cooking for her, he said: "Well, I must prepare myself for the night."

She begged him not to go, then cut the power supply itself and EM-Power Dex. And he said: "Well, I suppose I could stay a bit longer." And you can guess where it went from there ...

So, like Dex, you should aim to be excellent at something, while "holding the cards" for a woman's heart. Does that mean that you need to know how to prepare gourmet meals or buld your bike from scratch (at American Choppers)? Of course not! It simply means that you must find yourself as a talent, a skill, that separates you from the rest of the male pack and use it for all your benefits.

I'll give you an example of how to do that. The name of Jared, and it is not the most talented person in the world. Like Dex, it is not exactly a man on a mission, he plays a lot of video games and watch lots of television. And yet it never fails to female company.

Why? Because when he goes out and meets girls, he does something that surprises them: he taught himself (the proof that talent does not come naturally) card tricks really impressive. That's it. Jared is not an athlete, it is not a gourmet cook, it is not a guitar player. He has taught himself how to do cool magic tricks, and puts so that girls are naturally attracted to him. It works!

But does Jared out of his way to show his skill? NO. In fact, what Jared does is something very simple and very relaxed girl ask lots of questions about herself (the first rule of the Tao: Desireless be), then wait until there is a break in the conversation to ask: "Hey, you want to see something cool?" The girl will say yes, and he will tease: "Oh, never mind. You must wait until later. "

I call this curious construction, "and it's a girl getter proved. Stimulate curiosity, his stay away, and it will not only become more curious in your talent, but more interested in you.

So Jared Will chain the girl and for a moment, then said: "Very good! Very good! I'll show you something stupid, "with a smile. It changes the game so that the girl has become the chaser Jared hunting, and he is able to" calm "her with his thing.

What Jared is, in essence, is to follow the first rule of the Tao of T: he acts really Desireless. He turns the tables on the girls so they seem like those filled with desire, not him. By making them more eager than himself, he becomes stronger and, of course, more attractive. It's something really great.

In addition to that, once Jared has impressed the girl, he makes sure to follow the third rule: retirement. It strings along the girl as long as she can not help being attracted to him. And when she realized that she met a man of great talent, "he said," I gotta go, "or" Hey, my friends waiting for me. "

In doing so, it ensures that the girl needs him, the more it needs. In the process, she'l.