Pay it means before you "pay" or that you have found another way to contribute? Holding a door open?
A smile?
What makes a person better pay ahead?
Give a smile and a friendly hello does not cost anything. It makes you feel better with the person you gave it.
nothing friendly / helpful for a stranger!
You just made an act of kindness for someone else. I try to make one or more each day.
In the movie (Pay It Forward) a mission of social studies leads to social change in the spread of the city to city. Assigned to come up with some idea of the desire to improve mankind, a young boy decides that if he can do three good deeds for people's lives impact, and they in turn can "Pay It Forward "and so forth, positive changes can occur.
Have a spirit of generosity. If you really have a mind to give, then you will find many ways to help others who are not "paid" to all. Listening to someone else can make them feel valued. Attitude is everything.
Keep an eye open for ways you can do something nice for a stranger or someone you know.
Pay before he gives it a reward in itself knowing that you helped someone without expecting anything in return. AND you do not brag about what you did. Do it and keep your mouth closed.
It's like you have a flat tire and someone comes and fixes for you and offer to pay them and they just say pay forward as doing something nice for someone. It could open a door or something that you do that you do not already.
I do nothing special, if I can help someone in any case, a hug, a change to the store, carrying a bag of groceries to a car. Just little things that I can help. I think before we got in the habit of I'll help you if you help me. The Pay It Forward is just one thing to help anything in return. Kinda of an attitude of Nice.
Helping someone who needs something. I do it when the person wants to pay me, so I want to pay forward and return the favor when you see someone who needs help. Help them. so on and so forth. It began for me at age 11 when I need a penny to call my mother and the lady helped me. I have never forgotten and pay before each time I can.l
Pay means before you willingly help your neighbor / friend / acquaintance to mow his / her lawn rake leaves / / wash the dog or whatever neighbor / friend / acquaintance or can not do for themselves and would otherwise hire someone to do the chore if you had failed to volunteer your services. Never brag, talk about or comment on the fact that you have carried out such acts (which is in the records), and you must continue to make these kinds of things throughout your life - or least part of your life when you're mobile, healthy and strong mind. I'm not healthy, not more but I am still able to help my neighbors and friends with their taxes and correspondence and minutes of Toastmaster type in my community. Subsequently, when you are unable to make a chore, there will be a "pay it forward" person to help you! Hope this helps.
CJ
Posted on April 4, 2010.