Not Without My Daughter

Like all generations, mothers and daughters share a special bond. Although it is not quite a woman and, in many respects, is even a girl - they each bear the qualities of the other. The girls want to grow faster, and dear sweet moms want their youth. Mothers also know how important it is to be a good model for their daughters.

Thus, with only the best intentions, mothers and daughters trip traveling through life. It is the hope of every parent that their daughter grow up to be strong, independent, caring, and giving. dream of a mother is to enjoy the fruits of his work (no pun intended) ... knowing that her daughter is happy, confident, and kind to all. There are many detours and roadblocks along the way, but you can overcome them by using the four building blocks to achieve and maintain a relationship with your daughter that will last a lifetime! Thanks to your efforts in developing this relationship now, you not only enjoy a unique friendship with your daughter, you can also send a wonderful gift to the future of solid relationships with our own children. Really, what can be more important and more rewarding than that? Not much, it ranks right up there on top!

Life is based on building blocks. Relationships, too, are based on the same. Given the tools, you can build your own high ... strong in the last bumps in the road and the trials of life. A solid foundation provides the anchor to weather the storm. It is never too late to start. With each new day comes for renewal, forgiveness, and a positive step towards building once more.

BLOCK # 1 ... TRUST. Without trust, no relationship has no chance! Confidence is often mistaken as a "given". A God-given right! As a loving mother, your daughter has grown to trust you. She knows you take it when you say you will. She knows she is cared for and provided by you. Your daughter knows that your love is unconditional and that, regardless of his actions, you'll be there. She could have cried, but she trusts you first. Know that you have won his trust by word, credibility, and actions.

What is her perception of the trust gain? Each youth must understand that trust is deserved. In the same way you won their trust in You! Ask yourself: Why is it that sometimes we feel the need to accredit our children with attributes that should be won? Our girls need to understand that trust is patient. Small steps / process small reward is a trip for their independence. They need to take the responsibility to earn the trust, and he keeps expensive, as one of the most valuable aspects of your relationship shared. When you, as his mother, are of such importance, it becomes important.

There are five steps to build trust between a mother and a daughter. Each important and well kept. They include: honesty, awareness, monitoring, THEREFORE, and finally, PRIVILEGE. Knowing each of them and how to apply these measures to an employment relationship is a key element in maintaining a relationship.

BLOCK # 2 ... COMMUNICATION. It's funny, when our children were born, we seem so suited to their needs. We know the difference between a hunger cry and cry crazy. You feel slight change of mood and anxiety for the hours he is a cold. As our girls grow up, we teach them to speak. we repeat sounds and clap for joy when they say "ball" and "mama". We are delighted to know that our girls are on their way. We pay attention to all their needs and kiss goodnight softly and quietly.

Just because we teach the language, a set of "sound" does not mean that we teach communication. Communication as defined by Webster is: an act of transmission or exchange.