Children, The (2008)

Happy New Year!

As the clock ticked down the years and we all waited for the arrival of a brand new 2008, I began to wonder what all the people around me truly wanted deep quiet of the place where dreams, hopes and wishes really live. You know the place where we do not always reveal our true desires of others if we look stupid, crazy or vulnerable.

But if we want to be a co-creator of our own world and family life, we must make plans with a goal in order to manifest the destiny that we expect for ourselves and let go of our fear of ridicule. I call this "creating dreams .... with a date" and since writing my dreams and visualization of all days I can not believe how amazing things are still happening to me.

After seeing "The Secret" DVD a couple of years and having just read the amazing book Napoleon Hill's "Think and Grow Rich" I can not believe the people I meet, the adventures I have and the relationships and people I'm so grateful to have in my life since I started using the power of visualization.

Some people say we can not control the future, but failing to plan means planning to fail. If you have a wait, so whatever happens just happens and sometimes you feel like life is controlling you and you are a victim of fate. When writing goals you want to make you feel more in control of your life and you feel less stressed and more energized.

Like everyone else, I would like to plan things I want to meet or see happen in the new year, but I also know that if I determined, concentrated effort behind my goals, they will never materialize. You have to distinguish between a desire, a dream, a hope and desire. Napoleon Hill even went so far as to say that you must make your desires burning dreams that adds passion and a real enthusiasm to your expectations. It is the difference between just talking about something that you really want to happen and how.

So why not look at the kind of family relationship you really want to have with each child in 2008 or see the kind of parent you would be described as when your children are all grown up and tell their children about you.

What kind of memories you create for them through your discipline, enthusiasm and time spent actually chatting and playing with them?

Go have a cup of coffee and a pen and take a few moments to dream and make plans.

The year is divided into 12 months, so why do not you assign 12 goals for the new year?

So, start by asking yourself:

* What do I most want to change in 2008 in my family relationships?

What would be different in my family life if these problems, fussy or worries are gone for good?

* What happens if I do settle once and for all?

* What little I could do today to begin the discharge process?

If you wish, you can even classify the objectives of highest to lowest with one being your number one goal for the year. Once you've written this list, look first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Keep it handy or pop up in a place where you can easily see.

Just read your objectives to begin slowly and deliberately, and to relax and imagine that they occur in every detail. See what you see, hear what you hear and feel how much you feel you start to see these things happening for real in your life. Be as specific as possible in your photos and make them really bright and colorful.

That the list of goals are in your unconscious mind through repetition of reading two or three times each.